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Are you secretly a mean person? 15 ways of finding out (iii)

If you have been following this series, then you will agree that it has been eye-opening. 

Do you still believe you are as nice as you have always assumed you are? Probably not. The wind has blown and exposed the butt of the chicken (LOL!).

Of the 15 that I have on my checklist, we have seen 10, it is time to see the rest and put this matter to rest once and for all. 

11. You lie to get out of giving money

When someone asks you to donate to a cause or even lend them some money, you could lie to get out of giving that money.

12. You have broken up with someone via text

You said that you couldn’t handle breaking up with him face-to-face and so you opted for SMS, an email or WhatsApp!

13. You make friends/ date someone for what you will get from them

Yes, it is said that you should make friends with people that will be beneficial to you but you, on the other hand, are always looking out for what you can gain from the relationship, and not necessarily what you how you can impart them too.

14. You don’t ever give out old clothes/ things you don’t need anymore

Somehow, it does not even cross your mind to give these things to other people. You find yourself thrashing them or dumping them in a junkyard.

15. You hardly say ‘thank you’

This goes beyond the normal politeness of saying thank you when something is done for you. In your case, if you believe it is what the person should do for you, you don’t bother appreciating it e.g. a guy holding the door for you or a maid getting you a glass of water.

Now, that you have seen all 15, how did you fare?

The point is not for this to end here. If you discovered you are secretly mean, then use this checklist to get better by measuring yourself against it as you try to do better. 

Being mean is not really about being wicked. It is about thinking of yourself and not taking others into consideration so, do better today.

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