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8 things to consider when dating someone with kids (i)

Dating someone with kids can be very challenging. You will definitely face challenges, even challenges that are more overwhelming than dating someone who doesn’t. 

But to make things easier, there are things you need to know and inculcate into your daily routine that can help you deal with the ordeal. Let’s get to know these things right. 

The man has little or no money to cater to you

This is one thing you need to understand because he has many responsibilities—caring for his kids. 

You should be willing to play the role of a mother

In most cases, you will be expected to play the role of motherhood for the children. It is even helpful because it prepares you for your own. Just that it will take a lot of time to bond and blend with the kids. 

You ought to like the kids

The truth of the matter is that, whether you like it or not, you are expected to love the kids. The reason is that you can’t really find your way into his heart if you hate his kids. Even if they don’t love you as their mother, they will appreciate and appreciate you if you show them love and compassion. 

At times, he may be emotionally distant

Because of the emotional scars inflicted on him through the divorce, it wouldn’t be easy for him to heal just once; it takes more time. Emotionally scars don’t just go, some take months—even years—to evaporate. So don’t get annoyed if he, most times, doesn’t meet your emotional needs. 

I am extremely certain you are getting the right dish at the right time. The next article discusses more on this issue. 

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LG251 Dec 01

Great and best advice

Topebabe Nov 20

We need trust love&unity to do it

engineerumar64g Nov 13

At where is that rice

KALAPIZY Nov 12

True

Raphealempire Nov 12

any real single mom or single lady ready to be taken .am looking for. 08146141810

sweetkay00 Nov 12

Its vise versa

CitirexBiim Nov 12

I've seen a woman spend 17 yrs training her step sons who grew up to hate her bitterly, they eventally send her packing. So whats her gain?

rashashany Nov 12

k buh am bored want some1 to take me home

dumcy4real Nov 12

What If D Woman Have A Kid N What Are D Challenges For D Man

ROSSYB95 Nov 12

thanks

OlayinkaFatimo Nov 12

But Men are different from each order.I just need a man who is capable of bringing me home 08162663251

donwise8888 Nov 12

4rm ur msg u r only referin to a woman datin a man wth kids,wat if d woman is d one dat hve kids always try 2 balance ur msg

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