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Is it possible to treat your husband as your best friend?

So many a person have asked LadyNaija this question. They say that they always hear people say their husbands are their besties, and sometimes, you say someone says “I got married to my best friend.” It is possible to be your husband’s best friend and at the same time, a good partner. 

How can you become his best friend and at the same time, a good partner? Being someone’s best friend is no easy task but you can. How?

Let us get into business. 

Be honest with your partner

Friends are honest with each other. A true friend is one who can be trusted. A true friend is one who tells you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear. Whether he realizes it or not, you’re being honest with your partner is a way of being his bestie. 

Friends are willing to forgive

Whether you like it or not, you will offend your partner. Yes, you will offend each other. But never let this let your relationship down. Your relationship is more important than anything else. So be willing to forgive whenever he errs against you. 

Express admiration

Sadly, people fail to admire their partners even in the private. But this spirit is very wrong. Aunty, please try as much as possible to cultivate this spirit and show your partner that you truly admire him. 

Friends help each other

You are not only a partner but also a true friend. You ought to support him in any endeavor he undertakes. Wherever he needs support, please always be there for him.

Seek his advice

To be successful, you need the advice of someone you trust; and your partner is just that one. He is the first person in your life to seek advice.

LadyNaija cares! 

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Khalsy Dec 20 2019

Nice one i hope for all to know and work with it. I like it keep it up thanks for your care ladynaija

Ameenu2019 Oct 04 2019

Nice

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Nicesamuel2 Sep 28 2019

i wish my ex will read this article, bcos she does not have spririt of forgiven at all.

ONELUV9061 Sep 28 2019

But In D Case Dat U Treat Ur Husband As Ur Bestie And He Treat U Like An Enemy Wat Wil D Wife Do

nelizm10 Sep 25 2019

It was so good to treat your hushand as your bestfriend

YORUBAGEORGE Sep 22 2019

Yes of coures

Princevictoe Sep 21 2019

Learning is a continuous process, no one is perfect at everything

AKINBUKKY72 Sep 21 2019

Am very excited, good advice, let's try and keep it up

MUGUMEGODAN Sep 21 2019

beautful communication .keep it high

Deejktwin Sep 21 2019

NICE ADVICE KEEP MORE LIKE THIS COMIN', MORE POWER TO U.

ALEXSILVA2 Sep 21 2019

TRUE TALK

Olamost030414 Sep 21 2019

GOOD TALK, BUT HOW MANY PEOPLE KNOW THIS?

Heryorconmi1759 Sep 21 2019

nice write up

YOUNMONEY97 Sep 21 2019

i wish alot will read this

Arthur9698 Sep 21 2019

It can only happen when it has been built over a period of time even before marriage

lanrechoc Sep 21 2019

I strongly believe ones husband should be ones best friend. Same apply to the husband too