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Being a good friend: how to be supportive through a terrible break up (ii)

Being a supportive friend in the midst of an ugly breakup can be tough even though you are the third party; this is one of the times your friend needs you the most.

Unfortunately, you can’t take on her pain, so what then can you do to make it better?

5. Don’t tell her what to do

I know that in the first installment of this series I told you that you should tell her not to do certain things and do others. The point here is to advise her and help her see reason but don’t force her to do anything she is not convinced about. Don’t manipulate her either.

6. Don’t rush her

Don’t tell her to get a grip just a few days after the breakup. Allow her the time to grieve. A bad break up can be a lot like losing someone. It is the death of a relationship.

7. Entertain her

It does not have to be all serious every time. If she is trying to bring him up, you can distract her. You two can binge on shows, eat ice cream and do nothing else. Having some fun will get her mind off the breakup. The little things you do to help her will matter.

8. Listen

Sometimes, when she wants to talk, listen. Don’t shut her up or interject with your opinions, especially if all you want to do is to bash the guy and insult him. Remember this is someone that still means a lot to her so just chill and let her do the talking.

With these, you will be holding your friend’s hand through this journey and in no time, she will be over him. 

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