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Things you should be saying to your partner in an argument

Conflicts and general disagreement even over the most trivial issues happen all the time in relationships, but it is essential to note that what makes a love affair last isn’t the number of arguments both partners have survived but the manner of communication that ensues in these in the process. In building a loving and long-lasting relationship with your man, there is need to keep a rein on your words, cause the hurt they inflict might last for a lifetime.

Be guided by these tips on things you should be saying to your partner in an argument.

Nothing

Sometimes taking what appears to be the fool’s way by keeping mute in an argument might just be what you need to save you and your SO from regrets later. Besides, you don’t get your points across when you’re busy clawing at each other’s throat, saying nothing and just paying mind to what the other person has to say is a valid step towards clearing up your disagreement.

Use your ‘I’s’

In an argument with your man, don’t throw the whole blame on him, rather than pointing accusing fingers at him or hurling insulting and derogatory words, express your opinion, hurt feelings by starting off with statements like: ‘I understand…’ ‘I feel…’, ‘I disagree, and here’s why…’. Don’t lose hold of your sanity in the heat of the moment, take a deep calming breath, listen and get your thoughts across as calmly as you can.

I’m sorry

That simple sentence might become a lump in your throat and difficult to dispel especially when you know fully well that you are not the one at fault. Nevertheless, you should still be the bigger person and apologize first, be consoled by the thought that you are doing it all for your man, so he can see your love and humility beyond the red clouding his sense of reasoning.

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liswell Jul 23

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AKINBUKKY72 Jul 22

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ezeemanizi Jul 22

romantic argeument

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LADYB50002m Jul 22

i disagre

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Yetty8588 Jul 22

Nice advice