LadyNaija just said:

Getting back with your ex: the rulebook (ii)

While it may be a popular standard that getting back with your ex is a bad idea, I believe there are exceptions to the rule. 

If the reason for the break up was nothing major like physical abuse and rather was something like poor communication, misplaced priorities, you may give it a shot again.

However, before we continue with the tips on how to get back with your ex, I hope you have read the prequel to this post. 

Let’s continue.

5. Set boundaries

There are certain red flags that should not be tolerated this time around in your relationship. You know why you broke up the first time, so set boundaries that will ensure those triggers don’t come up. If it was poor communication then devise a method of expressing yourselves in a way that doesn’t hurt each other.

6. Create a bond

You should try to ignite the flames of your intimacy. I am not talking about sex but about connecting on a deep level through quality time. Be open with each other and never deem anything too little to talk about. It is by esteeming those little things that make up your day that you establish an unbreakable bond.

7. Work on communicating

I know I have mentioned this as an example earlier but I am going back to it because it is that important. You must learn what triggers your partner to anger and he must learn yours too. If you made the mistake of bottling up your feelings before, don’t that this time.

8. Be patient

Remember that you are both humans. Even though you don’t want to get hurt again, he might slip on some areas, the same way you would to. Don’t flare up once there is some minor misunderstanding and say you are leaving him. Be patient as you rebuild the relationship.

I truly hope you guys get it right this time. 

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Jinagani May 20

thank you for the insight.Very useful tips

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