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Getting back with your ex: the rulebook

Most people will tell you that it is a terrible idea to ever get back with your ex. Their argument is that you left them for a reason so why go back.

They have a fair point but on the flipside, there is such a thing as giving someone a second chance, especially when you have reason to believe that he has changed for the better.

That notwithstanding, do you just jump into his arms and not try to protect your heart? Nah! This is why I am outlining suggestions on how to go about it.

1. Re-evaluate

Before you take this step, girl, I would have to ask you again if that is what you really want to do. You must assess your feelings to ascertain if you want to get back with him because you are being too emotional or scared of being alone. Also, the reason you left him in the first place plays a major role in this stage. Was he hitting you? Will getting back with him truly make you happy? 

2. Don’t be alone in the process

Another important point of assessment is whether or not he is onboard. Is getting back together your idea as much as it is his? He must also show commitment and willingness to make the relationship work this time.

3. Slow and steady

You have been hurt by this man before; you don’t want to go rushing into the relationship. What you should do is to take the relationship one day at a time. Let things take a natural course and don’t skip any steps. It should be like starting a new relationship with someone else.

4. Let the past remain the past

Inasmuch as you are trying to be careful, if you really want to make the relationship work, then you would have to let go of the past in some way. You can’t bring it up in fights. If you can’t handle that then you should probably not bother with reigniting the relationship.

I have more tips coming right up.

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