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What to do when your boyfriend ignores you

Do you remember that we talked about the different reasons your boyfriend may have for ignoring you? 

The conclusion of the matter was that whatever his reason may be, you should be the bigger person and approach him. But how do you approach him? 

1. Don't retaliate 

Being the bigger person means that you eat humble pie. You are not meant to ignore him too, just to get back at him. You should take the high road. 

2. Communicate

Explain to him how you don't like his behaviour and how it is bad for your relationship. This equally gives room for you to hear him out. 

3.  Give him space 

If he is still not forthcoming then give the matter rest for a while. Focus on your life and whatever projects you are engaged in. Give him time to come around on his own.

4. Try to insulate yourself

This kind of attitude from someone you love is frustrating and downright hurtful but try not to get so consumed by it. Protect your feelings by tuning out until he is ready to come around. 

5. Set boundaries 

When he is back to being himself, you two need to talk about how he cannot keep ignoring you each time you fight or he is going through something. It is not healthy for the relationship or your mental health. Discuss how if he keeps up the attitude, it can lead to serious consequences in your relationship. 

6. Agree on alternatives

 If ignoring you should not be his go-to solution in tough times, what should it be?  You two should agree on alternative ways of handling pressure and discuss the underlying cause of his behaviour. 

With these, you two will be fine. 

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