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Effective ways of handling a friend who gets too comfortable with your man

Having your friends get along with your man allows you to have the best of both worlds but at times, things can get a tad uncomfortable.

Here is a personal experience: My then boyfriend and a very close friend got along really well, so much that my friend used to joke that she was his assistant girlfriend. I didn't think much of this but I got uncomfortable when my friend visited my boyfriend's town (my boyfriend and I were staying in different cities) and asked to meet up with him. 

Thank God, my boyfriend and I had a very open relationship so he told me about it and said how uncomfortable he was too. He asked me what he should do. To cut the story short, he was too busy to see her. Later on, she mentioned the event to me. She saw absolutely nothing wrong with it. To her, she was just meeting a friend who happened to be my boyfriend. 

I was not worried that she would snatch him but I didn't like the whole set up but at the same time, I didn't want to talk to her because it would make our relationship awkward. 

If you have been in a similar situation, here's what to do.

1. Be a united front. What is most important is that you and your boyfriend are on the same page about the matter. You two are honest with each other and decide on how to handle it. 

2. Talk to her. If she doesn't get the hint that you don't like how forward she is with your man then you need to have that awkward conversation. 

3. Don't make a big deal out of it. Don't accuse her of having ulterior motives if you have no reason to believe she does. Make light of it but get your point across.

This is what I think. What about you? 

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