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Why obsessive relationships are dangerous

You must have read my post on how to identify an obsessive relationship and you may wonder what the fuss is all about, besides what I am calling obsessive may just be that the two people are crazily in love. Wrong!

As I wrote in that post, there is a fine line between love and obsession. It is important that we all know why we should take care, not to fall into the consuming darkness many people assume is love. 

First of all, obsessions steal the sweet, easy nature of love from our relationships. Rather than being a team where each person is autonomous, you own each other. You are not free to think for yourself, make your own decisions or even have authority over the course of life. You are subject to each other and if you are in the relationship, you may not realize it but you are in a form of prison. 

Secondly, they deny yourself a well-rounded relationship with other people because you are too focused on your relationship. Ultimately, that neglect will lead to broken relationships with other people like friends and family, hurting for all involved. 

Third, over time, without realizing it you will become bitter because you will come to see that you have lost out on relationships you should have cultivated and you end up resenting your partner for making you miss out. 

Lastly, obsessive relationships encourage co-dependency -- when one person is emotionally reliant on another person in a relationship. In the end, one person is drained and exhausted. 

Anyway, you look at it, an obsessive relationship does not encourage you to be the best version of yourself. It is a selfish form of relationship. 

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