LadyNaija just said:

Are you bordering on being obsessive?

Love is a powerful emotion and it is very easy to confuse it with something else, something we don't realize is dark and ugly because we assume love is meant to be intense and consuming. 

However, you can save yourself from an obsessive relationship by identifying the problem through the following signs. 

1. You are always together 

It is normal for people in a relationship to spend a lot of time together but when you spend every waking moment together, without concern for personal space then it raises a red flag. 

2.  You two are isolated from other people

You two are not just together all the time but together alone; you hardly hang out with friends or family. Even when others are around you, you are isolated from them. It is like not having a life outside of each other. 

3. Excessive jealousy 

A small dose of jealousy is understandable but when it becomes possessiveness then it is an unhealthy indication. Obsessed couples can't stand when their partners spend time with or talk to other people. It can spark huge fights. 

4. You talk all the time 

You check up on each other every time and police each other's actions. Your opinions are reflections of each other, no individuality. 

5. You can't leave each other

If you realize you are not helping each other, you may decide to break up but doing so is so hurtful that you might even fall sick. 

6. Everyone else sees it

People around you two keep telling you that your relationship is toxic but you don't see what the fuss is about. 

7. You hurt each other emotionally 

When you fight, it is always very intense with terrible words flying around and probably, physical violence. It is like everything is extreme with you two. 

8. You have weird sex

Beyond having sex, you may find that you engage in sexual activities that many frown on, such as spanking, bondage, ass-eating etc. 

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