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How to leave a relationship you feel trapped in

I have shared before what a bad relationship looks like but I have to also show you how to get out.

First of all, I have to acknowledge that it is not easy but these steps I am about to share will set the ball rolling. 

1. Remind yourself
When you are considering leaving a relationship, for whatever reason, it is easy to tell yourself, “it is not so bad” because you are already used to being with that person or you are scared but reminding yourself of all the terrible things that have happened strengthen your resolve.

2. Don’t blame yourself
This is always the chance to turn the blame on yourself, especially if your partner has overtime exercised control over how you see yourself but don’t cave into that. Remember that you cannot hold yourself responsible for other people’s actions. You are your own person, the same way they are theirs.

3. Decide what you want
Assess your life the way it is now and visualize a picture of what you want your life to really look like. If you don’t know what you truly want (or don’t want) then you might remain stuck. Hold fast to that image and let it propel you forward.

4. Make a plan
I know that once you walk away like this, there might be the question of how to start again. This is why you should make, at least, a short-term plan of what happens next. Of course, you may not have all the answers but you should know where to go or who to speak to (a professional) to help you heal.

5. Leave
Do it like you are yanking off a Band-Aid. Do it once and for all and don’t look back or entertain thoughts of ‘what if’. Hold your decision and keep moving forward.

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