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Why lovesickness is dangerous

When we hear of being lovesick, we assume it refers to missing a loved one, much like being homesick. However, it can be an actual sickness, complete with symptoms and dangers. 

First of all, being lovesick as it is used in this article refers to feelings of distress when you have a nasty love experience. It may be called other things like unrequited love, one-sided love, etc. It is that emotional discomfort or even hurt that arises from not having your love reciprocated. 

Why does it hurt? Well, if you expressed your feelings and you were flatly rejected then it is better because you know what your fate is with the guy and you can move on. However, with the gender roles that have been imposed on us, it is kind of hard to confess your feelings to a guy. At times, even when you have the courage to do so, he may keep you in limbo; giving you mixed signals. That uncertainty is why lovesickness hurts.

Now that we have dealt with what it is and why it hurts, let us look at how it can be dangerous. You may say to yourself, “Well, it is not hurting anybody so what is the big deal?”

Well, my dear girl, it is hurting YOU. Being lovesick is like a bad habit that you need to stop. It keeps you from having a meaningful relationship with another guy because you are hung up on a particular one. You also torture yourself emotionally, wondering why he hasn’t noticed you.

 If you keep that up, that would be the death of your love life. That is why you should choose either of these- accept that he is not interested and move on or gather the courage and confess your feelings so you will know once and for all if he is into you or not.

I wish you the best.

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sandrahoney18 Oct 14

hmmmmmm.... i need a counselling too, since my previous relationship, i hardly feel for man again. dont have feelings at all

sandrahoney18 Oct 14

hmmmmmm.... i need a counselling too, since my previous relationship, i hardly feel for man again. dont have feelings at all

sandrahoney18 Oct 14

hmmmmmm.... i need a counselling too, since my previous relationship, i hardly feel for man again. dont have feelings at all

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