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Signs of a controlling boyfriend that most girls miss

When we think of a controlling man, we immediately assume he is loud, violent and assertive. However, your man can still be controlling you without being any of those traits because he manages to use the excuse of his 'love' for you as the reason for his behaviour.

Thus, here are signs that your boyfriend may be subtly controlling you.

1. He doesn't want you to hang out with your friends.

He will not put his foot down on stopping you from going out but he could make you feel like he is always lonely without you.

2. He loves to say, 'I told you so'

When he doesn't like something but can't get you to stop it, he lets it go until the perfect time. For example, he doesn't want you to drive, if someone gets into an accident, he may pounce on that to say, 'I told you so'.

3. He turns the tables

Ever noticed how you always end up at fault even though the conversation was about his bad habit and not yours? This is another sign.

4. He decides for you

He won't outrightly tell you what to do but he suggests, gently but persistently until you give in.

5. He has double standards

He tells you what is good for you but doesn't play by the same rules e.g. keeping late nights, hanging out with friends.

6. He never fights fair

When he realizes he is losing an argument, he can get all emotional and use something you once did that hurt him or some traumatic experience he went through.

7. He is insecure

He makes it seem it is because he loves you that he is always jealous, suspicious or even snooping through your phone.

8. You are over-dependent on him

This is the endpoint of his manipulation. You become so used to his methods that you can't decide for yourself what you want.

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