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Fighting fair in a relationship

“Fighting is a normal activity in a relationship but the way we fight determines if you are fighting fair.” This expression helps us to understand the fact that there is a good way where both parties are heard, but there is a bad way where you as a woman tears the relationship down. 

Women are easily offended but the way you react to the situation determines if it will escalate to the point of affecting feelings or not. 

There are things to have in mind that shows you are fighting fair in a relationship. 

Live with the desire to respect him. Some ladies fail to respect their guys. This is one reason why when issues come up, guys treat them the way they like; not because of hatred, but because you don’t show him a measure of respect.  

One of those things you also need to avoid is calling your partner names as this wouldn’t resolve the situation on the ground. Rather, no matter how hurt you are, tell him when he is calm. He then sees you as someone who wants to make peace in the home. 

Above all, treat him the same way you would want to be treated- no matter how angry you may feel at the moment.

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sigmappress Jun 24

fighting is not in any way fair but may be you mean disagreement on issue

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