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Dealing with a commitment-phobe

I bet many of us have been, dare I say, “victims” in this boat. While for some, the boat lands safely at the dock; for others, the boat never makes it to the dock. It just remains stagnant in the middle of the sea.

Commitment-phobe persons are deathly afraid of commitment. The signs are there if only we care to see them. Do they delay in defining the relationship? Do they fear the mention of the L-word? How brief were their past relationships? How long do they wait before introducing you to their friends and family?

What to do then?
You need to find the root of their phobe and learn to be patient; especially if you think they are worth it. Don’t take it personal but understand that something led to their phobia. 

Use a hard-to-get approach and make your commitment-phobic partner desire your attention and work for the relationship. Give him space and time so that he does not feel choked or lose his sense of freedom. Make him be the one to miss you.

Communication is the key! You need to make him know that you are safe and it is okay to be this close to you. Let him know you understand instead of getting upset with his commitment phobia tendencies.

At the end of the day, do your best and let go if it doesn’t work out. Please, don’t waste your time in hopes of something that does not show the possibility of working out ever!

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