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Discipline vs. spontaneity

When we hear the word ‘spontaneous’, we immediately think, ‘abrupt, unplanned’ while ‘discipline’ conjures ‘meticulous, focused’.

You may think they are opposites and so, can never be combined but I beg to differ. I am a firm believer in the fact that practically any habit- good or bad- can be both be cultivated or discouraged. Therefore the two can co-exist side by side. 

The reason I am very particular about this is because there are elements that these two concepts embody which every woman should possess. If you are that woman who prefers to think every move through, that is good and fine. That means you would be strategic at your place of work, prudent with your finances and most likely, a good homemaker. Yet, when your man wants the lover in you, being disciplined can be a mood spoiler, big time. He does not need you to be calculated at that point. Also, with your kids, you can’t afford to attend to every detail else you will become that overbearing mother.

Besides, how will you even enjoy the little moments in life if you can’t slow down and just live in the moment? This gift is what spontaneity gives you. True enough, a moment’s carelessness can cost you a lot but not going with the flow sometimes causes life to pass you by while you are busy being too careful and goal-oriented. 

If you are the really disciplined type then loosening your hold on the reins may be a bit difficult. I would advise that you make your loved ones comfortable enough to approach you when you are holding on too tightly once again. They will act as your alarm to alert you to enjoy life a little more. 

Be as disciplined as you have to be so you can get ahead but be just as spontaneous so you can enjoy every moment of being ahead.

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